How to Make Your Woman Desire More S*x

Many couples get lazy with s*x! They go into it as a matter of routine. No wonder that it sometimes becomes boring and altogether pushed to the back burner in a relationship!

Yet, s*x experts are saying that in order for s*x to be exciting and ‘new’ each time, you can spice it up in a lot of ways as follow.


(1) Try new position: 

Even if both of you have an easier time reaching orgasm in one position (as do most women), you can still try other positions. For instance, moving around during s*x, and changing positions, has several benefits. It not only helps the man last longer, it also helps increase the excitement factor. For instance, the woman can get on top, move the legs around and find a good angle. Make it a goal that every third time you make love, you’ll use at least three positions. So maybe two times are fun and simple, but then, spice the third time up!

(2) Tilt your pelvis: 

For women to reach an org*sm, the clitoris must be stimulated in some way. Normal missionary position s*x doesn’t tend to do this. But with one simple trick, you can make it so much better. Encourage your woman to tilt up her pelvis (by squeezing her butt muscles). This makes the angle better, so that when he’s thrusting, he will hit your cl*toris. But you also engage his penis because the tilting squeezes the cl*toris. You can do this in any position and enhance the pleasure.

(3) Start with a massage: 

Couples are encouraged to start s*x with a massage. Keep some massage oil on the bedside table, or a massage candle, and start by massaging each other’s backs and legs. The benefits? It helps you relax first. Also, if you massage n*ked, it’s very sensual, and it can get the l*bido going. It also shows that both of you care, it helps your bodies to relax, and it helps both of you to calm down mentally.

(4) Play teacher: 

Just because you’re married doesn’t mean that you understand each other s*xually. What feels good to one person does not necessarily feel good to another. And men tend to like being touched very differently than women do (men like things rougher and more deliberate; women tend to like things lighter). Also, just because something is an erotic zone does not mean that it wants to be touched all the time.

For instance, many women don’t like their breasts touched roughly at all, or even handled that much; but when they’re highly aroused all of a sudden, it’s exciting. So, tell each other exactly what to do. The advantage here is that, couples may think they’ve lost their l*bido when really their bodies have just changed and responds to different things now.

Good S*x... 4 Ways To Light Up Your Romance This Holiday

Written by Funmi Akingbade
Between preparation for celebration and Christmas parties, decorations, sending Christmas gifts, many couples, although not intentionally, forget the real reason for the holiday season, which is simple, HOLIDAY.

It means a break, a day off or leave from every other thing and concentrating on the most essential to the couple and family and the extended families. One of the biggest most essential things to the married couples is celebrating the gift of oneness which in most cases is usually being projected by the act of s*xual intimacy. 

S*x in a marriage relationship, when it’s good, can be amazing. 

When it’s bad, it can tear relationships apart. Everyone who has ever had s*x will know the strong emotional impact such an intimate encounter can have. Good s*x can have many wonderful physical and psychological effects, leaving you feeling great. 

It’s not just s*x that affects our psychological state during festive periods and leaves lingering memories, but couples’ state of mind has a huge impact on their s*x lives. That is the reason couples must find out time for intimacy in this season. 

So, while you are in the spirit of celebration, trying to take care of your family, friends and extended families, it’s important to give yourselves and your s*x a life; a prioritised treat especially when such holiday comes once in a year.

In a real-life situation, finding time [amid the demand of pleasing family, friends and others] for great s*xual intimacy can be a bit difficult between couples because of the mandate of the season. And in reality, the stress of preparing for the celebrations and parties, hosting family, cooking, and home decoration can take away from your time together and limit your opportunities for intimacy.

Here are few things you can do to preserve the closeness of your relationship during the season...

Just bear it in mind that stealing out time for s*x can be the best memories both of you can actually remember months after the holiday season is gone.

Number One … Be intentional about your relationship. It is possible for some spouse to believe that they may tell themselves that they will definitely have time to focus on their partner again once the holiday stress is over. But have you forgotten that the holiday rush is followed immediately by the back-to-work, school runs, house chores, and more-behind-than-ever catch-up, [ and we all know that the list is just unending], which just continues to pull our attention away from the primary relationship that is supposed to nourish and sustain us. 

Sad to say this, but in our culture, we tend to take our relationship for granted, and in doing so, we miss the point of the holidays. In every tradition, the holiday season is meant to celebrate relationship, nothing more nothing else. So, during the holidays, more than ever, married couples must purposely prioritise a time to celebrate "us".

Think about how you can nurture the three areas of your relationship – practical, functioning, good communication, friendship and oneness; s*xual intimacy and closeness. Ask your partner to write a list of actionable, measurable and time-limited ideas that would make them feel loved, cared for, and appreciated in each area. Choose and commit to doing two in each category each week during the holidays.

For instance: ‘Kiss me when I do not have my makeup on, or kiss me when my snoring disturbs you throughout the night. Hug me in the kitchen when I’m doing the cooking for the holiday (and offering to help! or help me out with the supervision of my work). Give me lots of time to become arou-sed, give my s*xual fantasy a push. Risk something new in the bedroom just for me.’ 

In fact, both of you can read one chapter from a s*x book together, and afterwards give yourselves a raw s*xual bath.

Ladies, Here's Why You Shouldn't Wear Panties To Bed

Dear ladies, except when you are having your monthly flow, you have no business wearing p*nts to bed. What reasons do doctors have for this ‘prescription’? See them below:

• Physicians say the female geni-tal needs to ‘breathe’ in order to maintain its pH balance and prevent fungi and odour. So, going to bed without your p*nts on will aerate your nether region.

• Family Physician, Dr. Grace Obong, says during the day, women wear a variety of panties and tight outfits that hardly allow their privates to breathe. She says though it’s advisable and absolutely preferable to wear cotton panties, many women still opt for polyester panties, with the attendant heating up of the geni-tal area while the day lasts.

• For those who may not like to go to sleep without having p*nts on, Obong recommends wearing of boxers or pyjamas.

• Experts at women's health say the vag-ina normally has a balance of mostly “good” bacteria and fewer “harmful” bacteria. However, a condition called bacterial vagi-nosis, develops when the balance changes. This may lead to abnormal vagi-nal discharge with an unpleasant odour, while some women may complain of a strong fish-like odour, especially after s*x.

• Other symptoms may include burning when urinating, itching around the outside of the vag-ina, and irritation; while some women with bacterial vagi-nosis have no symptoms at all,” Obong adds.

• Wearing panties to bed can lead to too much moist in the female geni-tal area, and this can lead to vagi-nal yeast infection, most commonly due to the fungus Candida albicans.

• Again, Certified S*xuality Counselor, Evelyn Resh, says, “I do not recommend that women wear underwear to bed. Taking a break from underwear for the eight or so hours that you’re asleep gives you an opportunity to ‘air-out’ down there! Best to have an underwear-free zone while sleeping.”

• And while yeast infection is not a s*xually transmitted illness, physicians say some men will develop symptoms such as itching and a rash on the p*nis after having s*xual contact with an infected woman.

REVEALED! This is the Best Time to Have S*x If You Want a Male or Female Child

It is a common saying that ‘timing is everything,’ but when it comes to s*x, especially when it’s just for pleasure, that phrase may not readily apply.

Pleasurable sexual intercourse can be done at anytime and anywhere, because all that is important to enjoy it in that instance is the consent and cooperation of the other person, and in a favourable atmosphere. In fact, there are times that it is after the romp in the sack that some couples soon realise the inappropriateness of where they did it. It can be that spontaneous.


Be that as it may, findings have however shown that for couples who are aiming at conception, or more specifically, couples who are desirous of pre-determining the gender of their baby, timing is indeed everything.

In other words, the time of the month they have sex is just as crucial to achieving that goal. And a quote by Rick Springfield, an Australian author, says it all, “If the timing is right and the gods are with you, something special happens.”

Ordinarily, couples who want to have a child are often advised to have sex about three times a week, especially around the time when the woman ovulates to enhance fertilisation. But there is more to that if couples want a particular gender.

The easiest way to have male child 

It should be noted that the sperm released by a man has both x and y chromosomes, while the eggs released by a woman at ovulation have x and x chromosomes. And for a woman to conceive a male, the man must release the ‘y’ chromosome because it determines the masculinity of a child.

While the x chromosomes equally determine the feminism of the baby. However, according to Dr. Rotimi Adesanya, a medical doctor, the ‘y’ chromosomes are more active than the x chromosomes, but they die faster than x chromosomes, which are weaker but last longer.

Therefore, when the Y chromosomes are dead, it remains the X chromosomes, and if it is the woman’s fertile period, the woman would likely have a ‘bouncing baby girl.’ Therefore, what should be done if couples want to have a male child?

Adesanya explained that a woman is more likely to conceive a male if sexual intercourse takes place on the day the woman is most fertile, which is the day she releases an egg and that is usually between day 10 and 19 of the menstrual cycle.

He said, “If the sexual intercourse takes place on the day of the woman’s ovulation (the day she releases an egg), which is the day 14 of the woman’s menstrual cycle, and the man releases sperm, that child is ‘likely’ to be a male.

This is because the man’s sperm has x and y chromosomes, but the ‘y’ chromosome that determines the masculinity is very active, so it reaches the egg faster than the x that is weaker. “That is why it is said that couples who want to have a male child stand a better chance if they have sex on the day the woman ovulates. However, I must add that it is not 100 per cent certain. It is a game of probability. Some people have tried it and it worked, while some others have tried it and it didn’t work. “That is why we use the word ‘likely’, just that the probability is high if they do ‘it’ on the woman’s ovulation day.”

He added that such couples still stand a chance of having a boy if they have the intercourse like a day after the woman’s ovulation day, because once a woman releases an egg, it can stay for between 24 to 48 hours. Thus, when the man releases sperm into her the day after her ovulation, the ‘y’ chromosome in the sperm would go faster than the x to target the egg that had been there already.

He said, “So, whether the intercourse happens on that ovulation day or the day after (though advisable on the ovulation day), it is most likely to be a boy. If it is after, it should not be more than one or two days, because when a woman releases egg on that day 14, by the second day, that egg would start degenerating and start breaking down to what comes out as blood during menstruation.

“Impliedly, if nothing happens to the egg like after two days, it will break down and come out as blood because the egg doesn’t last more than two days.”

Having a girl child with ease 

Meanwhile, for those who want to have a girl child, Adesanya explained that the best way to go about that would be for such persons to have intercourse like a day or two before the ovulation day, more so that sperm can stay in a woman for two to three days.

He added, “If the intercourse happens like a day or two days before the ovulation day, the sperm would still be there, but because the ‘y’ chromosomes do not last like the x chromosomes, what would be left of the sperm would likely be the x chromosomes because they stay longer. And so, the baby would likely be a girl.”

Meanwhile, given the important role ovulation day plays in helping couples to have a chance of determining the gender of their baby, it is necessary to identify the symptoms that precede or characterise the coming of the ovulation period.

According to Adesanya, such things include abdominal pain, being moody, feeling feverish, because of the effects of hormones, increase in breasts size, vomiting for some as if they are pregnant, etc.

He added that increased lubrication of the vagina could also be a pointer, as they tend to feel wet at that period. “It is just like when an animal is on heat and it tends to move closer to the male animals. That is when a woman actually releases an egg. And that day 14 of the woman’s menstrual cycle could vary by one or two days in some women,” he added.

He stressed that even though those calculations may not be 100 per cent sure, there is high possibility that it works.

Meanwhile, for those who are only interested in having a child, regardless of the gender, some experts have stressed the need for such couples to have sex three times a week, so that at some point, the sperm would be in the vagina either a day before ovulation or on that day.

Adesanya said, “In a woman’s cycle, we normally say they should have sex from day 10 of their cycle, which we call the fertile period; because ovulation itself occurs between the 10th and 18th day of the menstrual cycle. “But the day that has the highest likelihood is that day 14. The principle is that from day 10 to 14, if sexual intercourse happens, that sperm would be waiting for the egg to be released.

“We also use the principle for those who don’t want to conceive. During that day 10 to 18, they should not have intercourse, until after that because that is when the woman is most fertile."

It should equally be noted that ovulation itself is a part of the menstrual cycle, which is usually between 26 and 31 days, which is when an egg is released.

And according to livescience, an organisation that provides information on health, technology and other related issues, a healthy adult male could release between 40 million and 1.2 billion sperm cells in a single ejaculation.

Notably, they are that many because of the stiff competition as to which among them would fertilise the egg.


-Via The Punch

Romantic Moment OAP Freeze Shared A Sweet Kiss With His New Lover

Popular OAP Daddy Freeze took to his page to post the romantic moment he;s captured on camera passionately kissing his new woman. He said it's in the spirit of the season...

He captioned the clip: "Kiss kiss under the mistletoe! At #Utopia - Share a kiss of true love this Christmas and send to me via DM and I will post the top three true love kisses.

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The lady Yvonne shared the lovely story on her page of how her man, Joey, proposed to her in the most romantic way ever and she said Yes. How sweet! See more...

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Corper Proposes To Female Colleague In Jigawa Camp (Photos)

The alleged couple in question 

During the just concluded NYSC camping, a male corper proposed to his girlfriend who he just met in the NYSC camp - Jigawa State.

Some social media users believe this could have been an expensive joke common among Nigerian youths considering the fact that the identities of the duo remain unknown.

Meanwhile, there have been cases of people finding love during the 3-week camping period of corpers as organized by the leadership of the NYSC.

2 Secrets To Make You Stronger & Last Long In Bed... your woman want it

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Shocking! Woman Strips and Tries to Force Man to Have S*x with Her in Public (Photos+Video)

The woman desperately trying to have s*x with the man on the floor in public 

A woman left many people shocked after she desperately tried to have s*x with her reluctant partner and fails spectacularly in this hilarious footage.

In the clip which has since gone viral shows that drunk woman trying to undo his knicker but somehow ends up booting him in the face after he refused her advances.

The man who was obviously not in the mood for any s*x games refused her advances.

The video, posted to Live Leak, shows the man looking disinterested and worse for wear, with his partner clutching a bottle appearing more animated. When her fella stops her straddling him, she slaps his face.

Watch video below: 

So Strange: Photo of Weird Couple Kissing Voraciously Goes Viral on Social Media

The couple kissing 

This picture of a light-skinned couple with a complexion in deep contrast has caught the eye of social media users. In the picture, the man looked extremely dark in complexion with the lady seemingly light-skinned.

They were hungrily engaged in a french-kiss that indicated both parties could have been away from each other for too long.

A top commenter claims the couple represent a mixture of vanilla and dark chocolate.

Hot! 8 Interesting Things Women Wish Men Would Do During S*x...You Should Try No. 3 More Often

*Photo for illustrative purpose* 

If you feel like you’re just going through the motions when it comes to getting down and dirty, it’s time to inject some spice back into your s*x life. A recent study asked ladies to spill their thoughts on what makes a guy good in bed and a whopping 96% said they want a man to dominate in the bedroom.

Experimentation was also deemed as “very important”, with 86% revealing they wouldn't be impressed if a guy stuck to missionary. We spoke to sexual health expert Samantha Evans, co-owner of Jo Divine, about how couples can get frisky if you feel like your relationship is flat-lining.

In an exclusive interview with Daily Star Online, Samantha shared her top tips on how to be more adventurous in bed.


1. Role play 

Try acting out different roles which turn your partner on and vice versa. Experiment with what works for you. Meeting your husband at the door dressed in a sexy tight skirt, blouse, stockings and heels will soon ignite his flame. Tell each other what makes you tick and what turns you on. You may be pleasantly surprised at what your partner fantasises about. Role play enables you to connect sexual fantasies with reality.

2. Switch positions 

There’s more to s*x than the Missionary position. Find that special move that is just right for both of you – you may be surprised at how different and better s*x can feel in this position. Being on top is extremely pleasurable for many women, allowing deeper penetration and access to your clitoris and will excite your partner too. Rather than lying back and letting him do all the work, release your inner sex kitten and dominate your partner, you might like it and I’m sure your partner will love it. Tell him what you are going to do, where and how and ask him if he has any specific requests he has always fantasised about (he needs to be realistic with his requests).

3. Variety is the spice of life 

Just having s*x in the bedroom is boring so explore new places to have some naughty fun. Get off the bed and into the kitchen or on the dining room table. Change the time when you have s*x, early morning sex has been proven to be extremely beneficial and there’s nothing more fun than drawing the curtains, or not, on a sunny afternoon to have illicit s*x. Join your partner in the shower before work or choose a day when your life is less hectic and the children are fully occupied. Arrange to meet for lunch at lunch when the children are at school so you can have a midday quickie. Surprise s*x will always make your partner smile and initiating sex with your partner will turn him on.

4. Dirty talk 

Communication is so important in relationships. When we stop talking, problems start to arise, especially within our s*x lives. Men aren’t mind readers and neither are we, so tell each other how you are feeling and what you like. Tell each other what feels good, that you love each other, what you would like to do to each other, where you love to be kissed and what you like about each other’s bodies. You may both be surprised about what is said if you are honest with each other. If a man sees his partner actively enjoying what they are doing, it is a huge turn on. Share your sexual fantasies, you may be surprised to find his fantasy is the same as yours.

5. Read erotica 

Reading erotica has become the acceptable norm for many women and has kindled their sexual desires in many ways. Reading a short steamy erotic story can coax the first sparks of sexual desire in you. It may also give you some ideas for your own s*x life too. Writing down your own sexual fantasies with your partner or filming yourselves during s*x can really heat up your sexual desire. Don’t rely on ready made pornography, create your own. Just remember to delete it if you film it on the family camera. By writing down your sexual fantasies and sharing them with your partner not only lets your partner know what you desire is bed but will also help you identify what it is you need.

6. Lube up 

Something as simple as sexual lubricants can transform your s*x life, enabling you to enjoy more pleasurable s*x, last longer and feel more aroused. Ensure you use pH balanced lube as some products contain substances which can irritate your vulva, vagina and penis, nothing worse than a stinging vagina or burning penis.

7. Try BDSM 

You could try experimenting with light bondage to add some spice to your sex life using ties, ticklers and blindfolds if s*x toys aren’t your thing. Bondage offers another aspect to sexual pleasure and arousal which you may prefer and see as less threatening than a s*x toy. Blindfolds are a safe, non-threatening way to expand your erotic horizons and a great way increase your sexual pleasure and heighten your senses. Simple tickles and ties can add to your sexual arousal if your fantasy is being restrained but make sure you have a safe word if either of you wants to stop or be released.

8. Play with toys 

With a third of Brits admitting to using sex toys to enhance their s*x play and experience a wide range of sexual sensations, such as having an orgasm which may not be possible during sex play, s*x toys can spice up a flagging s*x life and bring a bit of fun into your life. However, you may think it is a good idea to surprise your partner with a birthday, anniversary or Valentine’s Day gift but it is advisable to talk to them first before whipping out your realistic 8inch silicone vibrator just as you are getting into bed. They may think that your s*x life is lacking in some way if you want to use a s*x toy.

Reassure them that this is not the case and you just want to find ways in which to pep up your sex life and enjoy different sexual sensations and pleasure. Start small. A common mistake both men and women make when buying a s*x toy is related to size.

Men tend to think that bigger is better, which can be a complete turn off for many women and some men who are not keen on sex toys as they see them as their replacement. Clitoral vibrators are ideal to introduce into your s*x play.

Beautifully designed, they do not bear any resemblance to anything of a phallic nature. They may be small but have strong motors which make them great for slipping between you during sex for clitoral stimulation. Male s*x toys such as penis rings offer vibratory power which stimulate you both and make his erection feel bigger and firmer too. Why not try remote controlled s*x toys to widen your sexual exploits?

Allowing your partner to be in control of the vibrations can be a little scary but also thrilling at the same time. Many women find it hard to lose control and using a remote controlled vibrator is the perfect way to help you to let go and experience the best orgasms you have ever had.

Start your foreplay early by enjoying a dinner date whilst he’s in control of the remote. You may not make it to dessert.


Culled from: Dailystar