I no longer know what to do. We have been together for 8 months and I want to marry her very soon. I have my reasons. She has been my childhood crush and now that we are finally dating I don't want anything to stop us. Guys come for her from time to time, but I know she's not a fling.
Sadly, I have serious problems with her aggression. A little thing she picks an issue with it and starts dishing out insults and hurtful words to me.
I always try to apologise and make her happy even when she is wrong not me, just so she will be calm. It was working before, now it no longer works.
Whenever I try to make her happy she gets more angry and say I'm trying to patronise her. If I take her out on shopping she could just get angry, saying I'm trying to buy her with money that I don't love her.
What do I do? There was a day I had to invite my sister to come talk to her as woman to woman talk, this lady pulled the belt on her jeans and began to assault my sister. I'm grateful to God that I was there even my left eye is still bruised with the way she hit me too that day. And the worst of it all is that rather than change, she gets more angry and more violent.
I threatened to call off the wedding thinking it will make her rethink but it didn't, instead she got angry that day and pushed me against the wall. God saved me because if there was knife or bottle around that day with the way she was angry she could have used any on me.
I love her, I don't want to call off the wedding and I want her to be wife but her aggression is too much. She get angry easily... and she seems stronger than I am (Yes she works out alot).
Please, I need help! Can I cope with this lady for the rest of my life?
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