My Girlfriend's Bedroom Demand Is Too Much, Everyday Sex

My new girlfriend wants s*x every night but I can't keep up. I have these feelings she's a nymphomaniac. We’ve been together a couple of months and there is no sign her quest is slowing down.


It’s great to have a woman who is so into me but I’m finding it hard to keep up with her demands in the bedroom. Sometimes it is difficult for me to even get an erec-tion and I’m even wondering...

- A guy who wants to settle down with a "moderate" lady sent this to Aunty Bunmi. Her reply:

Looks as if your body is struggling to keep up with your woman’s nightly demands and this is not a surprising sign. Everybody is entitled to a night off and you need to give your body a little love and attention too. 

Most relationships start with a passionate few months. But eventually you need to settle into a routine where s*x fits in with the rest of your life. This doesn’t mean you fall out of love with your partner – quite the opposite. 

Part of the function of so much initial s*x may be to condition the brain to your new lover. It’s been proved that when you have s*x, two hormones are released – oxytocin and vasopressin – which are thought to form strong and deep emotional bonds between you. If these bonds are strong enough, you should be able to cut back the time you spend having s*x. 

But that’s where the problem lies. What is satisfying to one person may not be to the other. It’s possible your girlfriend’s demands are due to feelings of insecurity about your relationship. If so, making her feel secure will allow your relationship to settle. 

I don’t think you should worry too much about erec-tion failure. If you’re attempting s*x that frequently then the problems could be your body’s way of asking for a rest.